FOR Couples

Welcome, Beloveds.

“We are born in relationship, we are wounded in relationship, and we can be healed in relationship.” -Harville Hendrix

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Are you in a relationship where...

  • You love each other but something is missing in the bedroom. The honeymoon phase wore off and now it’s like your bodies either don’t know each other, or they know each other all TOO well that there is no mystery, spark or hunger for one another. 
  • Your desire(s) is making your partner freeze (or vise versa) and you’re not sure how to navigate it.
  • You’re both wanting better tools to express how you truly feel or what you actually need from your partner—and to do so with love.  (i.e better communication skills)  
  • You want both you and your partner to feel more pleasure! And perhaps more freedom, wildness and play?! Yes please! 
  • You yearn for sex to be more than just sex. You’re both curious about Tantra and how to use sexual practices for spiritual growth, expansion and transformation- together. 

If any of those sound like you… how about we take some steps to change that?

Yes PLEASE!

Here's the thing:

On the path toward unabashed play,
freedom and connection…

comes surrender, vulnerability,
and splaying your naked heart out for another to see.

And even though that sounds beautiful- sometimes, most times, that shit is SCARY.
It’s scary to talk about our demons, our fears, and even what we deeply long for!

Most times we suppress these parts of us so far down we can’t even put to words what’s actually wrong.
And then it manifests as ‘issues’ in the relationship. Or sometimes disconnection entirely.

If that’s where you are in your relationship…
Welcome, welcome.

You’re in the right place and I celebrate you for taking the first step to understand yourself and your partnership more deeply.

We have this idea that a better relationship comes from dinner-and-a-movie date nights
and better sex comes from the right moves or techniques or maybe a change of scenery… (a vacation perhaps?)

Not to bash date nights, vacations and new moves… But it’s not what you’re doing…

It’s HOW.

How you show up to moments with your partner.
How you show up to the relationship.
How you show up to Date Night.
How you show up to love.

That is the thing, my loves:

Not the ‘what’ but the ‘HOW’.
And that is what I am here to support you to shift.

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The Beauty of this work...
is doing it together.

Your PARTNER TAKES ON THE ROLE OF YOUR SACRED MIRROR.

They invite you into healing your deepest wounds, your childhood traumas, your longing to be seen, heard, appreciated and loved. 

Where I come in is teaching you how to go about this in a way that is empowering for the both of you. (No nagging, bitching, complaining, withdrawing, numbing out or passive aggressiveness here.)

But rather each partner taking Radical Responsibility for their own ‘stuff’ — while still being loving and supportive of the other (who’s also taking responsibility and healing their own ‘stuff’).

Passionate relationships are an art.

And it is not always easy. Many of us did not have role models showing us what a conscious relationship full of honest and compassionate conversation and a hot, vivacious sex life looks like. 

But it IS possible. 

It CAN be sexy. It CAN be sacred.

All at the same time.

Ready to learn how?

Your Relationship Revamp

is a 3-4 month coaching package for couples ready to reignite their passion and move through blocks keeping them from having the relationship of their dreams.

The Wave

The wave of this journey varies greatly depending on where your relationship is at. And we can talk about this on our call together.

  1. We Open the Container with an individual session for you both to basically hear your side of “what’s going on?”
  2. We Have our First Couples Session that will give you tools to navigate our time together- so right off the bat you feel like you have practices to turn to when things get shaky (and they will get shaky! But that’s a part of the process and I’m here to hold you in that).

And we take it from there…

I continue to work with, and support the both of you individually on your own ‘stuff’, and then we come together when I feel another couples session would be supportive for integration and are ready for deeper teachings of connection. There are usually around 3 couples sessions depending on the couple.

What's Included

  • Ten 90-minUTE Virtual Sessions split between individual sessions and couples sessions.
  • “Homeplay” and Practices each week aligned with what you are currently experiencing and working on individually and within the partnership.
  • Session Recaps and Highlights from our session emailed to you so you don’t have to worry about being in your ‘thinking brain’ and taking notes during the session.
  • Check-ins and Support via email & WhatsApp to keep you accountable in between sessions and see how the practices I assign to you both are going.
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What do the couples sessions entail?

What we do in the couple sessions depends on where each person is at and where you are at as a couple- that day!

Because even if we all had a plan for something, life throws us curve balls and…we are human!

Our emotions and what we are experiencing shifts from day to day, moment to moment.
And, it’s a practice to show up to WHAT IS (hint hint, this is a practice to better sex!)

We show up in these moments because it teaches you both how to still connect…
regardless of if everyone is ‘in the mood’. This is the KEY!

It is less about being in the mood and more about being committed to showing up for each other. 

And here’s a little secret… this is usually when the magic happens.

SO, ONCE YOU SHOW UP, I GUIDE YOU THROUGH VARIOUS...

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COMMUNICATION PRACTICES

to learn how to really listen, and what it feels like to finally be heard by your love with full presence

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TANTRIC
PRACTICES

to deepen intimacy and connect at soul level

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COUPLES
BREATHWORK

to awaken and learn to move energy together (a precursor to those epic tantric orgasms you hear about…)

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and sometimes, more intimate explorations of one another

where you are in the comfort of your own home… but have a tantric guide in your ear 🙂

How does that sound? Kinda juicy, huh?

P.S. I've got a Secret...

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If you’re curious about working in-person with me, I do offer a Tantric Ceremony for couples…

I only occasionally offer this to those outside of my virtual containers- if interested please fill out an application and we can discuss.

I offer an option for couples who wish to experience Neo-Tantric practices and what that can do for their connection and intimacy. 

What's Included

A 3-hour Ceremony where I come to your home or your hotel and guide you into practices of connecting your body, heart, soul and sexual energy with your partner.

  • I create a ritual space for you both to enter into, and guide you through explorations of the heart and body.

  • Preparing your whole being for more expansive connection and pleasure.

  • One 90-minute virtual session prior to the in-person ceremony.

  • One 60-minute follow up call after the ceremony to support how it is integrating into your life.


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TESTIMONIALS

"The juiciness of this investment will last for the remainder of my life. THIS is the type of investment you want to make for yourself that will seep, pour, GUSH into every facet of your life, if you're willing to show up completely and fully. Luckily, Kelsey doesn't make showing up difficult- she creates a space that is safe and judgment-free, and with ease, dives to the depths that you may not have known existed within yourself. Kelsey is a gentle listener, a tough accountability partner (you want that!), a strong yet soft teacher, and a beautiful, gifted, compassionate, empathetic, wild, bad-ass, magical soul. THIS is her gift- THIS is her purpose, and to work with someone who flows so naturally in that current is also a gift to her clients. "
"It was a privilege to work with her- despite having never met her in person, I knew from "meeting" in other online circles that she would be the one I could trust with "sex" therapy, which turns out is everything and nothing to do with sex! My partner and I felt that our sexual connection wasn't as strong- thankfully my partner was willing to join me in this work with Kelsey, and through individual and joint sessions, we explored almost every facet of our inner worlds and lives together. "
"What I thought was "sex" therapy was really about (for my personal experience) exploring the way I perceived, spoke to, and treated myself and my body, how I felt as a woman in this world, the desires, fears and loves of myself and my partner, my partner's emotional safety, and pleasure. When I started my work with Kelsey, I was deep in a dark place of body-shaming, feeling so much disgust with my own body that I was unable to be present physically and emotionally for my partner in a variety of ways. Through a lot of tears, fighting with my "norm", inner work, individual and partner work, journaling, more tears, and small tiny shifts, I am now set up to continue to shift in a more positive direction. I feel, most days, like the bad-ass powerful, gentle, hilarious goddess that I am. I am actually proud to be a woman, rather than ashamed & angry. I recognize that opening up to my partner emotionally and physically is easier, more fun, and less inhibited. All of these shifts happened "one percent" at a time, but even a few percentage points' shift has led to more freedom and joy."
"If there is even a remote part of you considering doing this work, you absolutely MUST do it, and you MUST do it with Kelsey. She is pure magic. She has helped to save my life, a line I would never write lightly. Of course I'm crying again- practically begging anyone reading this because the joy and lightness that's come about from this work is something every human deserves to experience. "
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A Final Note

From Me to You

When we dive into the path of tantra, and courageously enter this realm with our partner-

our whole life changes.

We aren’t meant to heal alone.
In fact, our greatest healing comes from our wounds being met
by the loving presence of another.

It’s not always easy.
It can bring up our deepest-rooted fears
and the unhelpful patterns that have defined us for our entire life. 

But when that root is seen, met, and nourished with presence,
drenched with vulnerability and honesty,
and basked with the warmth of love…

There’s nothing else like it. 

Love is truly what heals.

I’d be honored to support you and your partner in your real and true Love Story. 

WE ARE READY

IN SERVICE OF YOUR GREATEST POWER

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